Another article on abuse – It’s complicated

While Cracked is hardly a scholarly site, the article is worth reading.  Abuse and relationships are more complex than we often perceive.

http://www.cracked.com/personal-experiences-1846-5-things-everyone-gets-wrong-about-domestic-violence.html

#4 is especially important

Also, for men, this DOES happen to you too. You have been taught mantras like: “Sticks and Stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me.”  Words from someone you love can rip you apart and you think you are immune.  This is a false assumption.

Anger and rage can also be used to manipulate a good man.  In this way, it is much like boxing. If they can enrage you, you will lose AND you may also forget things.  Then you can lose more.

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