More on Gaslighting
This is worth reading whether you suspect abuse in your life or someone else’s. You may want to read it twice.
I would particularly emphasize: 1, 4, 5, 6, and 8.
But, even if 1 is true and they don’t INTEND this, it doesn’t matter. You will need to ultimately get away in whatever that will mean to you.
Luck in battle. Luck in escape.